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Family Court Injustice to Children?

Can you imagine abandoning one of your children? Deciding the one that fights back needs to go away, go live with dad? So, instead of simple supporting and letting dad try to get the kid under control, you fight for a release from custody which you are granted by the Family Court. Then, curiously you start working on the kid through the limited visitation you are willing to take, every Wednesday for 3 hours and every other Saturday, but never over night?

After not caring for visitation for over a year, it starts after the custody change. The kid starts coming back to her father’s place more defiant and angry. Throwing vulgar insults like a drunken sailor. He’s not able to control the child. Now both mother and child want father alone and her gone, destroyed is how it has been presented.

“… Just remember how inferior you are to me…. how disappointed your whole family must be… You are the cause of all destruction and create it all for yourself and everyone around you. Do yourself and the rest of us a favor and crawl into a hole and live out your miserable existence so the sun can shine again for everyone you affect… YOU ARE NOTHING and you leave no legacy except that of destroyer of lives, homewrecker… go away, you will never matter at all here,” the mother ranted in an email.

So you get accused of child abuse. Police are being called, false accusations are being made, POs requested that CPS are investigating. The father and his new partner got slapped with a temporary PO because of a mother’s malice. All while, they have been contributing to doctors, therapist, the school, county programs to help the kid.

“Ask my kids about the song we made up… it goes like this…. If you’re a felon and you know it clap your hands (stop and listen for faint clapping in the distance), if you’re a felon and you know it clap your hands (stop and listen for faint clapping in the distance), If you’re a felon and you know it, here is one way you can show it, is hit a cop and get a trip to jail…  And than it just repeats… and we laugh!!” the mother continued.

Mom contributes the spread of hate while keeping her child’s desperate pleads for her own mother at arm’s length. Sent her back to her father’s where she and her mother alleged abuse to the courts. Poor child. Confused child. Taking it out on everyone. Wouldn’t you covenant your child? Bubble wrap the world if you could? Take her into her birth home to care for her? Any mother, I have had the pleasure to know and allowed to be a part of their children’s growth, would never throw their children away. Maybe the threat of imposing military school or hospitalization becomes a necessary ‘tool’ for some awakening. Still, you don’t abandon your kids. You don’t abuse the system.

“MY kids despise you and will NEVER respect you, so you go and deal with it… AND remember I’m watching!!!” the mother finally proclaimed.

So why are Family Courts allowing this? Family Courts don’t care what is best for children. All this kid wants is her mother. Yet the courts forced her on dad simply because mom said she didn’t want the kid. Dad couldn’t handle the kid either, but the courts didn’t care of him. Her father working endlessly in his tiny one bedroom apartment that barely has room for himself; instead of the stay home mother’s given 5 bedroom house with her siblings. Meanwhile, the courts raped dad with even more child support for less kids. Who are the family courts really helping here? How does that help the only working person for a dependent family of five? Leaving one of his children and himself living paycheck to paycheck. Meanwhile a mother determined to remove the hope he has found in a generous woman.

The mother in this story is Julie Garner of Rockville MD. This story is true. This email is real. The rest of the names have been protected due to the nature of this story

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Maryland Family Court corrupt

It is hard to believe that Maryland family court is so corrupt. You would think a department of law and justice such as family courts would have the family’s best interest, but they do not. It is a racket meant to make money at the cost of hard working parents and the children. I have watched first hand as an angry lunatic, who calls herself a mother, rant and lie, and get away with abandoning her kid. Maybe it is different in other states and counties, but for Montgomery County Maryland it is a truly shady establishment. Incline to side with a mother and decimate a father just on simple stereotyping. While it may be true that most mothers do care for their children, not in this case. This is about as “bazaro world” as one can get.

How is it that a mother can decide not to take care of her children and the courts grant her this right? A woman who sleeps all day with no responsibility be allowed this? It is true, she doesn’t have to take care of one of her children simply because she doesn’t want to and the courts said, okay and granted her more child support for the other two. She ranted in front of the judge that she wasn’t a babysitter, and though the judge seemed appalled by her statements she was still granted less children to take care of and more money.

Meanwhile the only working parent is strapped with caring for a child while he works a 50 hour work week. And has been raped of his hard earnings. Dad is still barring all of the financial responsibility, essentially paying twice while working. Yet, mother can’t even handle some basic necessities for the kids because she needs her beauty sleep. No doubt she needs it, but heck a 100 years of sleep won’t tame her gelatinous frame and evil outlook. She barely takes care of the children she supposedly still wants. One of them who the mother has managed to alienate from dad for a few years now is starting to shows signs of trouble. He is using his mother’s language when angrily ranting and throwing out threats to kill and find a weapon. Even the police were shocked by the verbiage this child was using.

I guess family courts don’t care about child abuse and/or punishing abusers if they have the title mother. They just pull out their calculators and tally up the tab for the only working parent. The lawyers are even worse. With their ability to see into someone’s finances and savings, funny how the bill ends up that exact amount. Basically raping the only descent person in a divorce. These lazy lawyers barely do their job. They wouldn’t make it in the real world where you actually have to produce results or you’re fired! No they didn’t push the judge’s ear for the truth of this woman’s abuses because they want to get to that round of golf. They want to stay on the good side of the judge for fear of hurting someone’s feelings because they have to work with them. And they know they get away with it, so why work hard. At the end of the day, they get paid.

Meanwhile, I have watched a young girl for a year struggle to find happiness from her feelings of rejection from a monster. She knows her mother doesn’t want her, it has been said many times. She has blocked her daughter from her phone. This mother has hit her and kicked her out of the house several times. Has threatened her on many occasions. Called her ugly and fat repeatedly. And yet insists the daughter come to visit her when it suits her delusional whims.

So here I am caught in the middle of a bad divorce, just for trying to help a man I care deeply for. He deserves better and so do his kids. I am far from perfect, but I am not crazy with BPD and I am not a lair who always has to win. I am just trying to be a good role model for this kid as best I can and I think it is working, even though we have a long ways to go. Amazing the damage a mother can inflict on a child she decides isn’t worth her effort or love. And how a father gets chastised for doing the right things.

The criminal in this story is Julie Garner of Rockville MD, who has lied under oath. This story is true. The rest of the names have been protected due to the nature of this story.

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US Family Court another form of slavery

Slavery is alive and well in the 21st century. Sadly, there are workers, children, women, and men who are enslaved in this world forced to give up their bodies, health and freedom for the needs of the greedy and pathetic. The wretched who prey on human lives for monetary gains. This is happening to black men in the US privatized prison system. This is happening to young girls around the world sold for sex. And this is happening to all ex-husbands in the US Family Court system who are forced to support their exes, fully capable adults, for life.

Family Court enslaves fathers and ex-husbands to give up their earnings and livelihood to lazy vindictive women. Women who refuse to work blaming their lack of incentive on others. Women in their 40s with a few decades of potential career opportunities to not work. The opportunity for these women to build up independence, character and become good role-models for their children is not a priority to the courts.

Family Court doesn’t find character building and independence important qualities. They get mesmerised by the money. Family Court puts all the burden on hardworking ex-husbands. And the ex-wife gets to move on, live in a nice home (provided for by the ex) and the support of another live-in man as she continues to collect her ex’s earnings for life. She gets to live better than her ex, even though she isn’t working. She doesn’t have to contribute to her family, but he has to stay enslaved to her even after their children’s support is done.

She is an ugly woman who cackles “paycheck” announcing her ex’s new nickname. Laughing in her entitlement. Feeling she is good. Even though, she has never provided for their children. Sleeping until 4pm. Yelling and beating them down. She’ll never save for their college. She doesn’t buy them basic essentials. She doesn’t help in any way. She can’t even help with basic math for a school project. No she will suck up every last dime for herself. For her security. She doesn’t care about the future of her children. That is up to her ex and yet he has been left without the resources to do it. He is just a pay check even to the courts.

This ugly woman only cares about not working. Can you imagine the mentality? It is hard to believe someone could be so selfish. And even with all the resources to live comfortably for the rest of her life. She still has a need to spend her waking moments harassing her ex. Hacking into his accounts and destroying his credit. She loves to send rude and ugly text messages and emails proudly displaying her win on him. She can’t contain her contempt for herself. Yes, she is projecting her ugly self on to him, and any Enlightened human being understands this. She is so caught up in her ego that she projects her misery thinking she is being sly and smart. And the US Family Court system enables this kind of ugly.

He is planning to move back in with his parents to save money as he continues to get up every day and work for a pay check he never sees. If he doesn’t want his children homeless, he will have to do this. She has made this clear, she will not become a decent human being. She has no interest in being nice or compassionate. Our country rewards greedy lazy people like her. Character doesn’t matter. What a sick society capitalism has created.

Have we gotten so removed from our true selves that we enslave the good and enable the bad? The answer is yes. Family Court doesn’t see it that way. They see it as “monetary even-steven.” If you marry a women, try to give her a better life and opportunities, and then instead she just establishes a tyranny with abuse, a good man is vulnerable to being enslaved with lifetime alimony.

Stay married more than 20 years because first you have children and then you are afraid, you will be a slave to the system that is bias towards greed. You may have finally gotten your freedom and sanity away from the abuse, but you will be a slave to a greedy lazy woman. The years of abuse won’t matter, the years of destruction won’t matter you still have to pay, preferably by check.

The US Family Court system cast a blind eye to abused men who are the only productive hard working individuals for the family. The courts are not friendly to men, even for the best character man and father. The only man that fairs well in Family Court has a lot of money and is out for blood. Good fair men become enslaved for life.

US Family Court loves mean vindictive people, because this means more court time and a lot more money pouring into the system. They don’t care about what is best for children. They don’t care who is being unreasonable. They don’t see the lies. It is simply a money making interest that has no regard for what is best for a family that is splitting into two. In the end, all they do is draw a line down “the supposed middle” buying into the most deceitful lawyer and vindictive client. Depleting the only one who is bringing in an income. The only one with a good heart. The only one who can enhance his children’s future.

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Handy resources for avoiding fraud

Thanks to Caroline Hampton of openeducators.org, I have a list of resources to help when dealing with fraud. In today’s climate fraudulent behavior seems to be the norm from the bullying neighbor to the corrupting scammer. I think these links can help:

Ultimate Online Shopping Safety: The Consumer’s How-To Guide http://www.retailmenot.com/blog/ultimate-online-shopping-safety-and-security-tips.html


Tips to Prevent Senior Scams http://www.caregiver.com/channels/long_distance/articles/SafetyAndSecurity/htm


Working Well with Contractors: 15 Questions that Prevent Fraud & Ensure Satisfaction http://www.homeadvisor.com/r/15-questions-to-ask-contractors/


How to Prevent Child Identity Theft http://www.parents.com/kids/safety/tips/how-to-prevent-child-identity-theft/


How to Spot an Internet Dog Scam https://www.rover.com/blog/internet-dog-puppy-scams/


5 Ways to Recognize an Acting or Modeling Scam http://www.backstage.com/advice-for-actors/backstage-experts/5-ways-recognize-acting-or-modeling-scam/


11 Ways to Prevent Identity Theft While Traveling http://www.com/travel-tips/travelers-ed/11-ways-to-prevent-identity-theft-while-traveling


The Post-Burglary Guide: What to Do After a Thief Strikes Your Home http://www.localalarm.com/resources/post-burglary-guide/

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